Introduction
21 Oct 2011 Leave a Comment
Hello everyone :0) I will be writing in hopes of finding a few people who I can relate to. My husband and I have been together for 5 years now, and have been getting a little bored with our sex life. For quite some time now I have tried to get him to be very dominant in the bedroom. I find it very sexy for him to take over, and for lack of better words “use” me for his pleasure. It makes me have butterflies like I did when we first met. He has been afraid of hurting me, or making it feel like a “rape” scenario, but I have assured him that I want to feel submissive to him in this situation. He really is such a sweetheart, and takes care of me well.
We have recently decided to try out a new life style of D/s. Bedroom talk is not my only reason for wanting to live this life style. I also want to feel like I am taken care of by a strong man in every day life. Until now he has been extremely passive. I have to make every decision, and by that I do mean EVERY decision. So now he is getting into it and becoming more dominant as he is trying to re-train his thoughts that he is not being mean to me, but rather he is pleasing me by stepping it up.
I know I have been a bit vague, but I would like to see what people think, before I really get into detail with things. So any feed back, personal stories or questions are welcome, and very much appreciated. Thank you for taking the time to read and I look forward to questions to answer.
